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![Do you ever wonder why your "success" leaves you feeling empty? [SAVE THIS POST FOR LATER]
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Maybe you receive a compliment on something you've worked hard on for awhile, you get a promotion at work, or you reach a goal you've been chasing for some time...
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...and you expected a big rush, a wave of happiness, or a sense of excitement...
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...but instead you feel...
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nothing? 😣
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What went wrong? What's happening?
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Don't worry, friend. You're not alone. ❤️
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Not only have I helped many clients work through this experience...I went through it myself!
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What I see again and again is that we chase versions of success that were defined by other people instead of being defined by ourselves, our intuition, and what we TRULY want.
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😢Success through fear leads to emptiness.
😊Success through intuition is the path to fulfillment.
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So if you get a promotion at your office job, but your passion is art...that promotion isn't going to resonate. It may even feel like nothing compared to the satisfaction of completing your last painting.
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Here's how to work through this:
✔️Write down ONE current goal (or definition of success)
✔️Ask yourself what the driver is behind it - did it come from you or someone else?
✔️Check in with your intuition and see how it resonates
✔️Decide if you want to re-write your goal or success definition
✔️And if you want, re-write it to something true to you
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I've simplified this process with the above list, but this can be a complex endeavor. Even connecting with your intuition can be a challenge if you're just waking up from social conditioning and other beliefs we've picked up over time. This is nothing to feel bad about - if you're ready for change you're on the right path!
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Need help with this? DM me, and let's chat about how I can support your journey to TRUE and FULFILLING success in your career, love, and life overall! 🤗
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