Can you manifest a specific person? Yes! You can manifest ANYTHING using the Law of Attraction. But what I want to talk about in this post and video is why you should NOT manifest a specific person. Of course, this is simply my opinion, and if you truly wish to desire your specific person, I say go for it!
Let’s jump in…
*VIDEO* My Experience Manifesting an SP and Why I Think You Shouldn’t
Be sure to watch my video for my full explanation and some fun examples.
Click here to watch my video about manifesting a specific person if the above player doesn’t work
Should You Manifest a Specific Person?
So we’ve already established that you can manifest a specific person. But beyond that, should you do it? I have two reasons I think you should NOT.
And before we jump in, I’ve heard many stories about manifesting a specific person going both well and not so well. When it comes to success with Law of Attraction in the love department, I wanted to share my thoughts based on my personal experiences. But I’d love to hear from you if you’ve manifested a specific person, so do comment your story below!
Reason #1: You may manifest a specific person but not get your needs truly met
So say you’re looking for a relationship with someone where you have the following, and they:
- like to travel with you
- respect you
- make you feel loved
- like to hold your hand
- make you feel safe
But you’ve had a crush on this guy, Joe, and you decide to manifest a relationship with him. In the relationship, you find out that he respects you, makes you feel loved, and likes to hold your hand, but…
…he does not like to travel (he’s a homebody), and he doesn’t make you feel safe (he’s a trusting soul and leaves the doors unlocked, among other things). Now you have a relationship where you may (keyword=”may”) have to compromise on traveling with your significant other and getting that feeling of safety you desire.
Of course, this is just ONE example, and you could have manifested a different specific person who DOES give you all the things you want. This isn’t a case of always having one or the other. A specific person certainly CAN give you everything you want.
The key here is that focusing on a specific person opens you up to the possibility of compromising on what you truly want.*
*And yes, since you can use Law of Attraction to manifest anything, you can also manifest those other things you want. Personally, that’s just a lot of mental gymnastics that I don’t want to deal with.
So, what if you could get EVERYTHING you want from a significant other? You can! This brings me to my next point…
Reason #2: You cut the Universe off from giving you the full abundance and limitless possibility available to you
In the example with Joe, you got your guy, but you had to compromise in a couple areas of your relationship.
Whereas if you focus on manifesting your ideal relationship, you will get EVERYTHING you want – whether it’s your specific person OR someone else. The Universe is full of abundance and limitless possibility, so there are many matches who can give you everything you’re looking for in a relationship!
You can guarantee having a relationship that gives you all of these:
- like to travel with you
- respect you
- make you feel loved
- like to hold your hand
- make you feel safe
If you focus your thoughts on the above qualities and are open to the Universe delivering the perfect person for you.
I actually manifested my ideal relationship by focusing on a list of ideal SO qualities. At the time, I thought there was someone I already knew who may be my ideal match. However, I ended up dating someone completely different. Could I have manifested the person I knew? Probably! However, that person most likely not have moved to SF with me, and I wasn’t interested in a long distance relationship. So, it seems to have worked out well!
Summary
In short, whilst you can manifest a specific person and that person CAN give you everything you want, I personally find the risk of compromising on what I want in an ideal relationship too high.
Definitely check out the above video for more details and a couple additional examples.
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Wishing you love and happiness whether you manifest a specific person or focus on your ideal relationship qualities.
What do you think? Should you manifest a specific person? I’d love to know your thoughts and hear from anyone who’s done it on how their experience went. Comment below!
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