Want to learn how I manifested my boyfriend using the Law of Attraction? Then, keep reading! Especially if you’ve recently been through a break-up or divorce, I have some amazing tips for you, plus the results of my strategies working in real life. This post and video are about how I manifested love – a Law of Attraction success story.
*VIDEO* How I Manifested My Ideal Relationship After Divorce
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How I Manifested Love Using the Law of Attraction
In 2018, after processing and healing from my divorce, I used Law of Attraction to manifest my ideal relationship within just a couple months of starting. My journey to love had plenty of ups and downs, but I managed to find an amazing boyfriend and have been in a committed relationship every since!
Here’s how I manifested love using the Law of Attraction .
1. Do Manifestation Success Habits
At the time I tried to manifest love, I was already doing quite a view manifestation habits. I also call these my “high vibe habits” because they’re so good at raising your vibe.
When you’re in a high vibe state, not only do you feel better, but you attract better outcomes. Plus, your conscious manifestations come much more easily to you.
And yes! You can be high vibe even when you’re going through a difficult time.
This may sound light, but this is the foundation that my successful manifestation was built on.
2. Prevent and Overcome Limiting Beliefs
As a personal development enthusiast, life transformation success story (from super negative to where I am now…woop!), and Mindset and Manifestation coach, I’m pretty familiar with working through limiting beliefs. Thankfully!
If I didn’t have this experience and knowledge, I think it would have been a lot more challenging to overcome the limiting beliefs others readily threw my way.
Things people actually said to me:
- It will be hard for you to date after divorce
- It will be hard dating at your age
- It’s hard to date in NYC
- There are no good men left
- Men these days can’t hold a conversation
- and more!
The best way to overcome a limiting belief is to proactively avoid accepting it as a belief.
With limiting beliefs, you must understand that whatever you choose to believe will be your experience. If you believe there are no good men left, that’s what you’ll see.
There’s a lot more to limiting beliefs, but that would be its whole own post/video or even course!
Basically, early on, even though hearing limiting beliefs would initially fill me with fear, I reminded myself that I could choose different beliefs, and so I did. For every limiting belief, I created an empowering belief. This really helped bolster my confidence and keep me optimistic about my dating experience.
PS: Dating in NYC is fun!
3. Focus On What You DO Want
In relation to limiting beliefs, many people shared their dating horror stories with me. This also caused a fair amount of fear in me.
But ultimately, I remembered one of my key manifestation tips – (don’t focus on what you don’t want) Focus on what you DO want.
Whatever you focus on is what you’ll get more of.
So I always tried to stay positive and think about what my ideal relationship WOULD be like. Even when I heard a horror story, I’d focus on how I wanted the opposite or something more positive than that.
4. Make a List of Your Ideal Relationship Qualities
Following a video I found by Leeor Alexandra, I made a list of my ideal relationship qualities. I focused on how my future SO would make me feel and how we’d spend time together. Leeor suggests not focusing on physical attributes, but I found myself naturally not wanting to put physical attributes on the list. I think when I was younger, I focused too much on looks and not enough about how we’d spend our time together. This also had the added benefit of creating less resistance towards my ability to manifest my ideal SO. Not sure why, but hey. It worked!
I literally manifested a man who met my list exactly, guys! This stuff works. Try it, and then message/email me later when you’ve met your list-relationship yourself.
Bonus tip: I came up with what I call a “Frankenstein Approach” for the list. Not the most attractive name, but it works and is memorable. Haha. Basically what you do is keep updating the list. Pull attributes from multiple places and “create” your ideal SO by mixing parts from different experiences and inputs. Include all your favorite things and ideal wishes for your future relationship.
5. Make a Themed Vision Board
There are many ways to make a vision board. One I’ve had great success with is making a themed vision board.
A themed vision board is one that focuses on one areas (versus being a full life picture overall). In this case, I made a vision board for love.
I used a 12″x12″ scrapbook piece of paper and put photos from magazines that represented my ideal relationship/partner. I put this on my bedroom door so I could use it frequently and visualize myself enjoying this ideal relationship.
And everything on the board came true!
6. Trust the Universe and Let Go
At some point I made sure to trust the Universe and let go. Instead of worrying about if and when my relationship would happen, I developed a sense of trust that it was happening, it was just a matter of time.
I had a sense of peace knowing my ideal relationship was on its way to me. Sometimes I’d picture us both like dots on a map of Manhattan moving closer and closer to each other.
A quote that helped me build trust is this one:
“What you seek is seeking you.” ~Rumi
It reminded me that not everyone was my ideal match. But somewhere out there, someone was looking for a girlfriend just like me. Like I was looking for him.
This is now one of my favorite quotes.
7. Take Aligned Action
Whilst I was totally open to the possibility that my ideal SO would knock on my apartment door, I thought I’d help the Universe facilitate my relationship by taking aligned action. To do so, I put myself out there and started online dating. I knew I needed to put myself in situations where I *could* meet a future SO.
Because although anything is possible, the chances of me meeting someone if I only went from home to work and work to home were less likely.
8. Ask the Universe for Help
One thing I did that I loved is I simply asked the Universe for help. I told the Universe I was looking for a serious relationship and that I didn’t want to waste time on guys who were only looking for a fling or who weren’t the right fit.
And the interesting thing is that a lot of my online dating conversations fizzled fast. And I even got ghosted! That’s a story for another day. Anywho, initially these things hurt me a bit. But I reminded myself that this was the Universe helping me by saving me from wasting time.
Thank you, Universe!
9. Use Jealousy to Attract Love (By Transmuting It)
At first, I felt a lot of negative feelings towards happy couples. I hate to admit that out loud, but…I was divorced, so I feel like this is understandable.
However, pretty early on, I also knew this would only push love further away from me. I knew it was important to put positive energy towards the things I knew I truly wanted – like love.
So, I figured out a way to transmute jealousy into a powerful way to attract love. I have a whole separate post and video about that, so check that out if you’re curious about this approach. I think this was a big part of my success, especially coming out of a divorce.
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Hope you enjoyed this post about How I Manifested Love. If you’re using Law of Attraction to attract your ideal relationship, I hope you find some of these tips helpful. Definitely let me know how it goes if you try any of these tips.
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